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My Earliest Pregnancy

 When I 40 years of age I witnessed the delivery pf my first born daughter. Yes,  I was quite advanced in years & had been married for nearly a decade when the mother's fertility treatment finally worked.  This single event immediately & significantly altered my life's trajectory.  Previously I had been focused on sailing,  surfing & fly fishing as well as varied careers.  Afterwards I dropped every future goal & personal want to ensure that my little girl was safe,  comfortable & had all that she needed.  Sixteen years later,  when that daughter was being installed at agricultural college,  one of the lecturers recognised her& said: "You're the girl whose father led her about on that point all the time". We smiled,  this was a slither of the life that we,  & her little brother led,  from birth through to adulthood. As soon as they were born I had done everything in my powers to put them first. The fact that their mother was less better